Message system issues? Where is outbox? Where are brand new incoming messages?

[KnotMe]

I was looking at the message system having received a new message (sent Nov 3) to which I responded.  Then I found a message from long ago that I could not tell if I responded to or not.  I could only find the inbox, but not the outbox even though there's a checkbox when you send the message about saving a copy to your outbox.  Then I received a message that a new incoming message for me had arrived but for the life of me, I cannot find it.  The message system that showed me a message that I received yesterday would not show me this message that it said I had just received.   

[SS369]

Good day Knotme.

I have checked my message system and it is working as it should. So, I have sent a message to the site Admin on your behalf.
Hopefully the Admin will check on this and fix the challenge you are having.
Please let me know when and/or if you get some help.
I?m sorry you are having this challenge and that I, personally, are not able to fix this.

SS369

[KnotMe]

The new message (which I assume) was the one I was notified of, has since arrived.  Still no luck finding my outbox...

[admin]

Please send me, via private message or email, a screen shot of your messages page so I can help you to solve this issue, as all is working correctly on the backend, and their are no blocks or holds on your account.

[KnotMe]

While taking screenshots for you, (re?)discovered the Sent Messages, so you can cross the Outbox thing off your list.  Sorry!